Attraction

Is intense sexual chemistry a sign you’re meant to be? Or is it a signal that you’re going to be heartbroken again? How can you tell if intense sexual chemistry is love v lust? There’s a rush of connecting with someone new when you’re hot for each other. The conversation flows easily, you have butterflies [...]

“Hi Orna and Matthew, Question: If I have no chemistry with a guy I’ve met, how long do I wait to see if attraction develops between us? I have met a very nice man. We have the same interests in hobbies, books and music. He’s retired and has tons of time. I work full time [...]

“Dear Orna and Matthew, Why am I attracted to the wrong people? I am attracted to not only non-committal men but to mean, moody, and nasty men. My father was mean, moody, and nasty. He yelled at me and called me names my entire life up until about three years before he died. Those are [...]

There are moments when you feel magnetically drawn to someone that sets you off thinking you may have met your soulmate. So, what’s going on when this happens? Is a feeling really a sign from the universe that you’ve finally met The One, or is there something more important going on? You know the experience, [...]

“Hi Orna and Matthew, I have a question about the importance of chemistry between two people. I’ve been dating this guy for about 4 months and he is unlike any of the men I’ve dated in the past. He is kind, thoughtful, and he seems to really like me. He says he wants to be [...]